When we want to achieve our goals, success often we are so motivated that our brain can’t stop thinking, what should I do? What’s next? How to make the business bigger? How to achieve more? It is not wrong at all. Yes we need to be motivated, we need to do more action than just think and plan.
But what usually happen is when we too obsessed with the success, achievement our mind often become overwhelmed and it often lead to confusion, hard to focus, feels like the energy is draining and the feeling of lost that oftentimes leads to stress even worse, depression. Our mind and body has a limit and often we push ourselves too hard.
I had been in this situation many times, I want to be independent, successful that I realize it demands me to be strong, work smart, setting goals, set up strategies how to achieve my goals. But too often I put myself too much. I ignore my limit, just focus on goals, achievement, goals, achievement and at some point I feel lost and confuse that leads to stress and mild depression. We all know that not all our plan will go as we planned, road to success is not easy, it is a package of feeling the euphoria that your plan seems so good that it may turns out to be great but in the process we start to face difficulties, challenges or even a dead end. The more you stress the more you confuse the more you confuse, the more you deppress, let’s say it is a snowball effect. And I advise you guys, when you in it, stop and get out.
What I said earlier, a road to success will never be easy, but I believe we all can achieve it, its just every one of us will experience different things, different challenges, different opportunity.
So, never put your self too much because it won’t do you any good. Sometimes wee need to sit back and relax, by sit back and relax we can see what we do wrong, by relaxing our mind a little bit so many great ideas will pop up! And the most important things despite setting goals, planning is do more. Doing more doesn’t mean overwork but do your work consistently everyday, by doing so you will step by step achieve your success. When we do something consistently it maybe slow, but after a while when you look back and see the results you will be surprised that by doing your work consistently even it seems not much but the result will be great.
So, this is my idea of living a life I want, pursuing my dream to be success one day without losing my happy peaceful life and moreover without pushing myself too much.
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