Signs That You Have Toxic Friendship

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Having friends that are nice to talk to, be there to lend their shoulder when we need that’s all a friendship we are dreaming of. But in adulthood, not all friendship is that sincere and healthy sometimes we are trapped in a toxic relationship. But since your friendship have been lasting for a long time you may not realize that your friend might be a toxic for you. Or maybe you’ve realized that but you are too afraid to lose friend.

Basic friendship principles for me are, they will be there in your happy and hard times, they will be there for you in your ups and downs, they can bring laughter in your days. So many times I had been disappointed with fake toxic friends they tried to getting close to me just to take advantage of me or too toxic that they often spoil my mental health. So we have to be smart in picking our friends, which circle you want to be in.

Be with those who can bring out the best of you, who are loyal to your friendship, be there when you need them and off course not someone who stab you at your back. But you need to know when is the best time to pull yourself from the toxic friendship.

Okay, have ever felt that your energy drained up after talking to your friend? every time they can be very irritating even in their your casual talking. They might be too intense and in every simple topic they just want to argue for the sake of arguing, even though there is no argue needed. Then you feel drained, tired not feeling joy in that relationship, then think again. Are they really your friends? It is not wrong to argue or having different opinion in life but if every time you see them you feel drained, I think you should think twice to be in that kind relationship.

Good friends should be a place to find joy, comfort you when you are down if every time they walk into the room they just shower you with discomfort, anxiety, stress, then think again, maybe you are not meant to be with them.

Having friend should be fun, comforting, finding joy in the friendship but when your friendship has became irritating, bring stress, discomfort and unhappiness then you should think again. Are you really want to be in a toxic relationship? because being with toxic people will just be too dangerous for your mental health.